The way we relate

We tend to think of ourselves in a positive light, though, we know our faults as human beings.
I think this is completely normal, but I have been thinking now somehow about why do we sometimes feel hurt, even though there is not any apparent reason to feel like that. The samet thing goes for feelin blue...how come we just get sad, or depressed, without any reason? We just feel blue.

We open up to some people that we trust, but the concept or foundation of that relationship may not be the same for that other person. The way we relate to our significant others is as personal and different as we as individuals are unique.
After all, its just a matter of how you choose to open to people and the expectations or assumptions that that creates on you
and also on the person him/herself.
At the end of the day, we all want to be cared for, and care for someone. To be able to express what we really feel for someone is not as easy as it may sound..

I think that we need to risk, and put our faith...and open up to people, at least to the significant ones in your life. The important part
is that we should understand that other people, no matter how much yu know them, are different from
you....hence, the understanding of your relationship to this person is different, or may be different.

:)